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way of thinking to be happy

 

Hello, I'm Yoko, the manager of Lucky Shop Dotu.

You wrote the title “◯◯ to be happy”

Are you attracted to it when you see it?

If you are concerned,

I have had many painful experiences in the past.

I'm currently in a difficult situation

Or you feel that something is missing in your daily life.

You may be feeling it.

I read a lot of books to be happy.

How can I be freed from the hardships of life? That's it.

I was often hurt by other people's slight words.

And even if I'm hurt, I pretend like I'm not hurt...

Some books say, "Forgive those who have hurt you in the past."

I wrote to say thank you.

"Thank you? That's impossible!"

I thought I would never be able to express my gratitude.

Even if I think about it now, it's still a very unpleasant memory.

I remember it like it was yesterday.

Each time, emotions like anger and frustration overflow.

However, I learned about psychology, brain science, coaching, quantum mechanics, etc. and found out.

(But I'm not good at spirituality)

<Everything is for my own happiness>

You don't need to thank the person who hurt you.

However, continuing to have hatred there

You end up making that other person a big part of your life.

I think that's a waste.

There are all kinds of people in the world.

Some people fill their hearts with hatred and attack others.

But handing your life over to that person

I think it should definitely be stopped.

Because you can't change the other person,

Let's just move away and live our lives happily.

<Three points to live a happy life>

① When you get so angry that it actually boils over

Let it be the driving force to take action.

② Even when it is too close to you to leave, try not to get involved as much as possible.

③ Turn your consciousness toward a fun future

The human brain can only focus on one thing at a time.

Therefore, even if you make a mistake, you will not take revenge on the other person.

Even if the other person becomes unhappy, it is different from your own happiness.

Everyone who reads this

I wish you a happy life.

Until the end Thank you for reading.

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